{"id":5484,"date":"2022-10-16T18:30:53","date_gmt":"2022-10-16T16:30:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.tantaki.hu\/blog\/?p=5484"},"modified":"2022-10-16T18:30:56","modified_gmt":"2022-10-16T16:30:56","slug":"10-tantaki-top-tipp-4-mi-a-helyzet-a-parvalasztassal","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.tantaki.hu\/blog\/10-tantaki-top-tipp-4-mi-a-helyzet-a-parvalasztassal\/","title":{"rendered":"10 Tantaki Top Tipp #4 Mi a helyzet a p\u00e1rv\u00e1laszt\u00e1ssal?"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"5484\" class=\"elementor elementor-5484\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-02dce66 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"02dce66\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-f12af26\" data-id=\"f12af26\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2794894 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"2794894\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>A sz\u00edv\u00fcgyek, \u00e9s a k\u00e9s\u0151bbi boldog p\u00e1rkapcsolat sikere legal\u00e1bb olyan l\u00e9nyeges, mint az iskolai fejl\u0151d\u00e9s, tud\u00e1s, munka \u00e9s k\u00f6teless\u00e9g. Viszont ott van benn\u00fcnk az aggodalom is, hiszen ha befoly\u00e1solni pr\u00f3b\u00e1ljuk ezt a bens\u0151s\u00e9ges dolgot, az bizony k\u00e9t\u00e9l\u0171 fegyver. Mi t\u00f6rt\u00e9nik, ha teljesen elvesz\u00edtj\u00fck a gyerek bar\u00e1ts\u00e1g\u00e1t \u00e9s egy\u00fcttm\u0171k\u00f6d\u00e9s\u00e9t? Ha &#8222;csak az\u00e9rt is&#8221; megmutatja nek\u00fcnk?<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p>Pontosan ez\u00e9rt d\u00f6nt\u00f6ttem \u00fagy, hogy ma err\u0151l fogok \u00edrni neked. Kezdj\u00fck az elej\u00e9n:<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-098d3fb elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"098d3fb\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-5164298\" data-id=\"5164298\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1b088f7 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"1b088f7\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Mikor hozzuk el\u0151 ezt a cikis t\u00e9m\u00e1t a gyereknek? <\/h2>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-532bead elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"532bead\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-d36ffb4\" data-id=\"d36ffb4\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4f139d6 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"4f139d6\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>El\u0151sz\u00f6r is, szeretn\u00e9lek megnyugtatni, ez egyszer\u0171bb lesz mint gondoltad.<\/p><p>Ugyanis nem azzal kezd\u00fcnk, hogy &#8222;mit kell csin\u00e1lnia a m\u00e9hecsk\u00e9nek a bib\u00e9vel, hogy azt\u00e1n a g\u00f3lya ne rakja tele a f\u00e9szket kakukk fi\u00f3k\u00e1kkal&#8221; <img decoding=\"async\" class=\"emoji\" role=\"img\" draggable=\"false\" src=\"https:\/\/s.w.org\/images\/core\/emoji\/14.0.0\/svg\/1f61c.svg\" alt=\"\ud83d\ude1c\" \/><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"emoji\" role=\"img\" draggable=\"false\" src=\"https:\/\/s.w.org\/images\/core\/emoji\/14.0.0\/svg\/1f61c.svg\" alt=\"\ud83d\ude1c\" \/><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"emoji\" role=\"img\" draggable=\"false\" src=\"https:\/\/s.w.org\/images\/core\/emoji\/14.0.0\/svg\/1f61c.svg\" alt=\"\ud83d\ude1c\" \/><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p>\u00c9n m\u00e1s oldalr\u00f3l k\u00f6zel\u00edtem meg, \u00e9s m\u00e1r nagyon kor\u00e1n.<\/p><p><b>P\u00e9lda:<\/b> amikor kis Brigi haza j\u00f6n az \u00e1ltal\u00e1nos iskola 1. oszt\u00e1ly\u00e1b\u00f3l, szemembe n\u00e9z, \u00e9s azt mondja: &#8222;Patrik lesz a f\u00e9rjem \u00e9s Batman!&#8221;, akkor tudom, hogy \u00e9rdemes vele elkezdeni besz\u00e9lgetni. Nem er\u0151ltetetten, csak id\u0151r\u0151l id\u0151re.<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p>(Egy\u00e9bk\u00e9nt a\u00a0 besz\u00e9lget\u00e9s kb. \u00fagy zajlott k\u00f6zt\u00fck, hogy Brigi ellentmond\u00e1st nem t\u0171r\u0151 hangon tudatta Patrikkel, hogy \u0150 a kiv\u00e1lasztott. Partik v\u00e1laszul k\u00f6z\u00f6lte, hogy \u0151 nem lehet Brigi f\u00e9rje majd, mert \u0151 lesz Batman. Brigi felaj\u00e1nlotta a kompromisszumot, hogy akkor legyen a f\u00e9rje, \u00c9S Batman. Ennyiben maradtak.)<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p>Cukik tudnak lenni \u00e9s viccesek, de vissza a komoly t\u00e9m\u00e1nkhoz, hiszen ez teheti a k\u00fcl\u00f6nbs\u00e9get boldogs\u00e1g \u00e9s \u00e9vtizedeken \u00e1t tart\u00f3 szenved\u00e9s k\u00f6z\u00f6tt.<\/p><p>Sz\u00f3val lesznek ilyen finom <strong>jelek, amikor \u00e9rz\u00e9kelj\u00fck, hogy elindult valamif\u00e9le \u00e9rdekl\u0151d\u00e9s a p\u00e1rv\u00e1laszt\u00e1s ir\u00e1nt<\/strong>. Ak\u00e1r m\u00e1r az \u00f3vod\u00e1ban.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-e7ca100 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"e7ca100\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-85ffd39\" data-id=\"85ffd39\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-43f3c48 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"43f3c48\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"620\" height=\"412\" src=\"https:\/\/www.tantaki.hu\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/2969061_high-620x412.jpg\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-5485\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.tantaki.hu\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/2969061_high-620x412.jpg 620w, https:\/\/www.tantaki.hu\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/2969061_high-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.tantaki.hu\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/2969061_high-768x511.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.tantaki.hu\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/2969061_high-1536x1021.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/www.tantaki.hu\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/2969061_high-2048x1362.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 620px) 100vw, 620px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-a71a253 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"a71a253\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-150d7b9\" data-id=\"150d7b9\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c56b3b8 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"c56b3b8\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Hogyan seg\u00edts\u00fck a p\u00e1rv\u00e1laszt\u00e1sban \u00fagy, hogy az IGAZI seg\u00edts\u00e9g legyen A SZ\u00c1M\u00c1RA?<\/h2>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-6e2682b elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"6e2682b\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-2fcf1d6\" data-id=\"2fcf1d6\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-0d9f8fb elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"0d9f8fb\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Besz\u00e9ltess\u00fck arr\u00f3l, hogy <strong>eg\u00e9szen pontosan hogyan k\u00e9pzeli majd el<\/strong> &#8222;Patrikkal&#8221;? Vagy ak\u00e1r csak \u00e1ltal\u00e1noss\u00e1gban. Hova mennek majd nyaralni ha nagyok lesznek, mennyi gyerk\u0151c\u00f6t szeretn\u00e9nek, stb., stb. Majd arr\u00f3l, hogy szerinte milyen legyen az \u0151 \u00e9lete p\u00e1rja: okos, izmos, sz\u00e9p? J\u00f3 r\u00e9szletesen. \u00c9s ne annyira csak a k\u00fcls\u0151re koncentr\u00e1ljunk. K\u00e9pzelje el, hogy ki mivel fog foglalkozni, stb. Ha \u00e9pp sz\u00edv\u00e9be z\u00e1rta Batmant, akkor m\u00e1ra hagyjuk is annyiban.<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p>Ha pont nincs konkr\u00e9t &#8222;v\u00e1lasztottja&#8221;, akkor \u00f6tletelj\u00fcnk vele, hogy <strong>hol lehet majd a legt\u00f6bb ilyen &#8222;okos, izmos, sz\u00e9p&#8221; t\u00e1rssal tal\u00e1lkozni<\/strong>.<\/p><p>Ez val\u00f3ban nagyon fontos! Mert ti is tudj\u00e1tok, hogy k\u00e9s\u0151bb ha discoba j\u00e1r csak, akkor es\u00e9lyes, hogy odal\u00e9p hozz\u00e1 valaki azzal a megkap\u00f3an kreat\u00edv udvarl\u00f3s sz\u00f6veggel, hogy &#8222;J\u00e1runk?&#8221; \u00cdgy neh\u00e9z lesz d\u00f6nteni.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-2dc663c elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"2dc663c\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-9d39185\" data-id=\"9d39185\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-57403a0 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"57403a0\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"620\" height=\"349\" src=\"https:\/\/www.tantaki.hu\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/music-g0ba2a007b_1280-620x349.jpg\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-5486\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.tantaki.hu\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/music-g0ba2a007b_1280-620x349.jpg 620w, https:\/\/www.tantaki.hu\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/music-g0ba2a007b_1280-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.tantaki.hu\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/music-g0ba2a007b_1280-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.tantaki.hu\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/music-g0ba2a007b_1280.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 620px) 100vw, 620px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-833d293 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"833d293\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-bac026e\" data-id=\"bac026e\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-fc10c50 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"fc10c50\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Lehet, hogy sokkal jobb, ha elj\u00e1r k\u00f6nyvt\u00e1rba, t\u00e1nch\u00e1zba, sz\u00ednj\u00e1tsz\u00f3 szakk\u00f6rbe vagy korcsolyap\u00e1ly\u00e1ra. Egyszer\u0171en a sz\u00f3rakoz\u00e1s\u00e9rt, \u00e9s hogy hasonl\u00f3 \u00e9rdekl\u0151d\u00e9s\u0171 gyerekek k\u00f6zt legyen. Persze nem ez a legfontosabb ilyen fiatalon m\u00e9g, hanem egyszer\u0171en az, hogy <strong>kezdjen el \u00e9rt\u00e9kekben gondolkozni<\/strong>, \u00e9s ne csak a k\u00fcls\u0151 d\u00f6nts\u00f6n majd, vagy az, hogy &#8222;mindenki m\u00e1snak tetszik, akkor men\u0151 vagyok, ha vele j\u00e1rok.&#8221;<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p><strong>\u00c9rdemes id\u0151r\u0151l id\u0151re visszat\u00e9rni vele erre<\/strong>, hogy milyen legyen majd a Nagy \u0150 emberileg, \u00e9s hol vannak szerinte ilyen emberek. Amikor be\u00fctnek a hormonok \u00e9s j\u00f6n a serd\u00fcl\u0151 kor, m\u00e1r eml\u00e9kezni fog arra, hogy voltak ilyen besz\u00e9lget\u00e9seitek, \u00e9s val\u00f3sz\u00edn\u0171leg sokkal k\u00f6nnyebben l\u00e1tni fogja majd az \u00e9rt\u00e9keket.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-f866ae7 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"f866ae7\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-219804e\" data-id=\"219804e\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-96d599e elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"96d599e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Mi t\u00f6rt\u00e9nik a serd\u00fcl\u0151vel, aki egyik pillanatr\u00f3l a m\u00e1sikra \"teljesen megvadul\"?<\/h2>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-6dd8755 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"6dd8755\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-dc3b8fc\" data-id=\"dc3b8fc\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-59323aa elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"59323aa\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>A legt\u00f6bb esetben k\u00e9t dolog egyik\u00e9r\u0151l van sz\u00f3, \u00e9s csak az egyik igazi probl\u00e9ma. Az is megoldhat\u00f3&#8230;<\/p><p><b>Kezdj\u00fck a probl\u00e9m\u00e1ssal, a m\u00e1sodik m\u00e1r k\u00f6nnyebb lesz!<\/b><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-140e0bf elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"140e0bf\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-ad1e502\" data-id=\"ad1e502\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-de0ca0e elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"de0ca0e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">1. A nem t\u00fal szerencs\u00e9s k\u00f6rnyezet<\/h3>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-b52aabc elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"b52aabc\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-42041cf\" data-id=\"42041cf\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c69135b elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"c69135b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>\u00c9szre vett\u00e9tek, hogy vannak olyan oszt\u00e1lyok ahol a &#8222;falkavez\u00e9r&#8221; egy olyan gyerek lesz, aki t\u00f6r-rombol? Egy ilyen k\u00f6rnyezetben egyre t\u00f6bb gyerk\u0151c \u00e1tveszi a &#8222;k\u0151kem\u00e9ny vagyok, nincsenek \u00e9rzelmeim, rombol\u00f3g\u00e9p vagyok&#8221;, vagy b\u00e1rmilyen hasonl\u00f3 viselked\u00e9st. Mi\u00e9rt?<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>Mert l\u00e1tsz\u00f3lag ez legy\u0151zte a szer\u00e9nyebb, norm\u00e1lis viselked\u00e9s\u0171 gyerekeket. Vagyis sikeres! Ha v\u00e9letlen\u00fcl a gyerek\u00fcnk hirtelen megv\u00e1ltozik \u00e9s esetleg \u00e9rzelmi hull\u00e1mz\u00e1sokat is gyakran tapasztalunk n\u00e1la, \u00e9rdemes v\u00e9giggondolnunk, hogy ez mikor kezd\u0151d\u00f6tt n\u00e1la. Majd id\u0151ben menj\u00fcnk egy kicsivel az id\u0151pont el\u00e9, \u00e9s tudjuk meg t\u0151le, hogy akkor mi v\u00e1ltozott. Milyen \u00faj hat\u00e1s ker\u00fclt az \u00e9let\u00e9be?<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>Ilyen esetekben nagyon gyakran el\u0151j\u00f6n egy szem\u00e9ly &#8211; gyerek vagy feln\u0151tt &#8211; aki egyenesen lehengerl\u0151 a sz\u00e1m\u00e1ra. <b>R\u00e1 is k\u00e9rdezhet\u00fcnk, ha sz\u00fcks\u00e9ges, ak\u00e1r k\u00fcl\u00f6nb\u00f6z\u0151 szavakkal.<\/b> Ha megtal\u00e1lja a forr\u00e1st, ezzel v\u00e9ge is a majmol\u00e1snak. Persze ilyenkor m\u00e9g \u00e9rdemes seg\u00edteni neki, hogy mit\u00e9v\u0151 legyen a helyzettel. K\u00fcl\u00f6nben visszaeshet.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-02dea8e elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"02dea8e\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-6071e09\" data-id=\"6071e09\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4425b8a elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"4425b8a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">2. Modern divat, fiatalabb nemzed\u00e9k, \u00faj szok\u00e1sok<\/h3>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-d228fda elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"d228fda\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-78730dd\" data-id=\"78730dd\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-613f8f1 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"613f8f1\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>\u00c9rdemes belekukkantanunk, ak\u00e1r az interneten, hogy mik <strong>a leg\u00fajabb divat trendek<\/strong> a fiatalok k\u00f6r\u00e9ben. Lehet ugyanis, hogy a koroszt\u00e1ly\u00e1ban &#8222;teljesen norm\u00e1lis&#8221;, ahogy kin\u00e9z, csak mi idenked\u00fcnk ett\u0151l a &#8222;modern k\u00fcls\u0151t\u0151l&#8221;.\u00a0<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p>J\u00f3 tudni, hogy minden faj &#8211; az ember sem kiv\u00e9tel &#8211; egy kicsit &#8222;meg\u0151r\u00fcl&#8221;, amikor be\u00fctnek a hormonok. A papag\u00e1j b\u00fcszk\u00e9n billegeti mag\u00e1t a n\u0151st\u00e9nynek: &#8222;N\u00e9zd, milyen \u00e9szveszelyt\u0151en gy\u00f6ny\u00f6r\u0171s\u00e9gesek a farktollaim, \u00e9s itt a sz\u00e1rnyam alatt is! Nem k\u00e9rd\u00e9s, hogy azzal j\u00e1rsz legjobban, ha t\u0151lem akarsz fi\u00f3k\u00e1kat!&#8221; Vagy a szomsz\u00e9d &#8222;Maci&#8221; kutya, aki minden este \u00e1tugrotta a ker\u00edt\u00e9st, majd hajnali 5-kor t\u00e9rt haza, de lusta volt beugrani a ker\u00edt\u00e9sen. Hangos ugat\u00e1ssal jelezte &#8211; az eg\u00e9sz utca hatalmas \u00f6r\u00f6m\u00e9re &#8211; hogy k\u00e9szen \u00e1ll hazat\u00e9rni az \u00f3lj\u00e1ba, nyithatj\u00e1k a nagykaput.<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p>Az emberre is igaz, hogy amikor ebbe a korba ker\u00fcl\u00fcnk, akkor megv\u00e1ltoznak a fontoss\u00e1gok. Pontosabban: hirtelen nagyon-nagyon fontoss\u00e1 v\u00e1lik a kiskamasszal egyid\u0151s gyerekek v\u00e9lem\u00e9nye, r\u00f3la. A k\u00fclsej\u00e9t, a st\u00edlus\u00e1t \u00fagy alak\u00edtgatja, hogy sokkal ink\u00e1bb a t\u00f6bbi kamasznak tetszen, mint a sz\u00fcleinek.<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p><b>Ha ez\u00e9rt megdorg\u00e1ljuk, akkor es\u00e9lyes, hogy betiltakozik \u00e9s kapunk egy l\u00e1zad\u00f3 kamaszt, vagy nagyon visszah\u00faz\u00f3d\u00f3 lesz.<\/b> Tegy\u00fck a kez\u00fcnket a sz\u00edv\u00fcnkre: egyiket sem szeretn\u00e9nk. Sz\u00f3val legy\u00fcnk meg\u00e9rt\u0151ek! Ha mindig fejben tartjuk, hogy ez az \u0150 \u00e9lete, nem a mi\u00e9nk, akkor sokkal felel\u0151sebb lesz, mintha folyton kontroll\u00e1lni pr\u00f3b\u00e1ln\u00e1nk \u0151t.<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p>Nagyon-nagyon rem\u00e9lem, hogy seg\u00edtettem! Nyugodtan \u00edrj r\u00e1m ak\u00e1r, hogy milyen t\u00e9m\u00e1k foglalkoztatnak, mert <strong>a c\u00e9l, hogy boldog gyerekeket nevelj\u00fcnk, akik sikeres feln\u0151tt\u00e9 v\u00e1lnak! <\/strong><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-28a21a1 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"28a21a1\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-cef9ab9\" data-id=\"cef9ab9\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-155a378 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"155a378\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"620\" height=\"413\" src=\"https:\/\/www.tantaki.hu\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/pexels-andrea-piacquadio-3781529-620x413.jpg\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-5445\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.tantaki.hu\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/pexels-andrea-piacquadio-3781529-620x413.jpg 620w, https:\/\/www.tantaki.hu\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/pexels-andrea-piacquadio-3781529-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.tantaki.hu\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/pexels-andrea-piacquadio-3781529-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.tantaki.hu\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/pexels-andrea-piacquadio-3781529-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/www.tantaki.hu\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/pexels-andrea-piacquadio-3781529.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 620px) 100vw, 620px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-163aab0 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"163aab0\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-b5769ce\" data-id=\"b5769ce\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-0581aff elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"0581aff\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><b>Az oktat\u00e1st pedig a Tantakival sz\u00f3rakoz\u00e1ss\u00e1 var\u00e1zsoljuk a gyermeked sz\u00e1m\u00e1ra, gazdas\u00e1gos, min\u0151s\u00e9gi alternat\u00edv\u00e1t biztos\u00edtva a fejl\u0151d\u00e9se \u00e9rdek\u00e9ben.<\/b> A tapasztalatok azt mutatj\u00e1k, hogy m\u00f3dszer\u00fcnkkel n\u00f6vekszik a gyerekben a kitart\u00e1s, a k\u00f6teless\u00e9gtudat \u00e9s az \u00f6n\u00e1ll\u00f3 tanul\u00e1s k\u00e9pess\u00e9ge.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p><p>A visszajelz\u00e9sek alapj\u00e1n olyan tanul\u00e1si \u00e9lm\u00e9nyt ny\u00fajtunk, amely meghat\u00e1rozza majd nemcsak a jegyeit, hanem az eg\u00e9sz hozz\u00e1\u00e1ll\u00e1s\u00e1t is. Neked pedig megnyugv\u00e1st \u00e9s el\u00e9gedetts\u00e9get k\u00edn\u00e1lok az oktat\u00f3programok \u00e1ltal, mint sok m\u00e1s sz\u00fcl\u0151nek is, akik ugyanabban a cip\u0151ben j\u00e1rnak, mint Te. A sorozat elolvas\u00e1s\u00e1val seg\u00edtesz nekem, hogy seg\u00edthessek nektek! Tudom, hogy \u00fct\u0151s csapat lesz\u00fcnk!<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-7d966a5 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"7d966a5\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-72f94d9\" data-id=\"72f94d9\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b9fd066 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"b9fd066\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><strong>J\u00e1t\u00e9kos tanul\u00e1ssal k\u00f6nnyebb a meg\u00e9rt\u00e9s!<\/strong><\/p><p>Ezen az oldalon kipr\u00f3b\u00e1lhatj\u00e1tok a gyerk\u0151ccel, hogy hogyan is m\u0171k\u00f6dik a j\u00e1t\u00e9kos tanul\u00e1s:<\/p><p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.onlinetantaki.hu\/ingyenes-tananyagok\">https:\/\/www.onlinetantaki.hu\/ingyenes-tananyagok<\/a><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-b0e9243 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"b0e9243\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-5d1c4c1\" data-id=\"5d1c4c1\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-eaf1cf1 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"eaf1cf1\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<figure class=\"wp-caption\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"200\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/www.tantaki.hu\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/DSC_2605-200x300.jpg\" class=\"attachment-medium size-medium wp-image-5463\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.tantaki.hu\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/DSC_2605-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/www.tantaki.hu\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/DSC_2605-620x930.jpg 620w, https:\/\/www.tantaki.hu\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/DSC_2605-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.tantaki.hu\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/DSC_2605-1024x1536.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.tantaki.hu\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/DSC_2605-1365x2048.jpg 1365w, https:\/\/www.tantaki.hu\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/DSC_2605-scaled.jpg 1707w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 200px) 100vw, 200px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<figcaption class=\"widget-image-caption wp-caption-text\">Nagy Erika, a j\u00e1t\u00e9kos tanul\u00e1s szak\u00e9rt\u0151je<\/figcaption>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/figure>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-5e204be elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"5e204be\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-a0a9a08\" data-id=\"a0a9a08\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-8cbf6f4 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"8cbf6f4\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Olvasd el a t\u00f6bbi Tantaki Tippet is! <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tantaki.hu\/blog\/10-tantaki-top-tipp-3-penz-befolyasolhatjuk-nevelessel-hogy-a-gyerekunk-majd-anyagi-biztonsagban-eljen\/\">Kattints ide az el\u0151z\u0151 cikkhez&gt;&gt;<\/a><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A sz\u00edv\u00fcgyek, \u00e9s a k\u00e9s\u0151bbi boldog p\u00e1rkapcsolat sikere legal\u00e1bb olyan l\u00e9nyeges, mint az iskolai fejl\u0151d\u00e9s, tud\u00e1s, munka \u00e9s k\u00f6teless\u00e9g. Viszont ott van benn\u00fcnk az aggodalom is, hiszen ha befoly\u00e1solni pr\u00f3b\u00e1ljuk ezt a bens\u0151s\u00e9ges dolgot, az bizony k\u00e9t\u00e9l\u0171 fegyver. Mi t\u00f6rt\u00e9nik, ha teljesen elvesz\u00edtj\u00fck a gyerek bar\u00e1ts\u00e1g\u00e1t \u00e9s egy\u00fcttm\u0171k\u00f6d\u00e9s\u00e9t? Ha &#8222;csak az\u00e9rt is&#8221; megmutatja nek\u00fcnk? Pontosan [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5493,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tantaki.hu\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5484"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tantaki.hu\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tantaki.hu\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tantaki.hu\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tantaki.hu\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5484"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"https:\/\/www.tantaki.hu\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5484\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5494,"href":"https:\/\/www.tantaki.hu\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5484\/revisions\/5494"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tantaki.hu\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5493"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tantaki.hu\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5484"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tantaki.hu\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5484"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tantaki.hu\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5484"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}